9:24 p.m., 2007-01-28
This is a very strange entry. Does not make sense. Very hard to explain. Suggest you skip this.
Back to the my parents. When I was little I was just as shy, if not shyer. Shy people are usually obedient right? Yep and so until a year ago, I was miss goody goody.
Compared to other people I know, from primary, I thought more for others than myself. 'Tis the way I was raised.
So my parents don't notice this so called "obedience".
Then high school comes and its the that time of my life; the phase of disobedience. My parent notice that. So when I'm doing something good, they think thats nothing. But when I do something bad, I get told, "Gosh, listen to your parents more. Be a good girl. You never do what your told!"
They didn't notice when I was nice. But they do notice when I'm not nice.
SAD!!!
Cough cough. Ano... I also realised that when I do something after I've been told, I don't like being complimented.
I don't like being praised for doing something after you told me to do it.
Gratitude would be the better option.